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juanjimal · 01-18-2010, 12:08 PM

So an update to our life since the threesome.

Since our first threesome we haven't had another. Largely because of the difficulty in finding another guy. The first guy felt like he was just a peice of meat and i think we hurt his ego when we agreed. lol. We figured why bullshit, we dont want to be his boyfriend, we just want him for sex. He could have been flattered that he was only my wifes second guy and we picked him out of at least 50 but w/e he never responded to any of our other messages.
Finding another guy for a threesome doesnt seem like it would be that difficult but it actually was quite a challenge.
I had gotten a vasectomy a little under a month before our first threesome and my wife has been off the pill since December. so now the chance of us having a spontaneous threesome is extinguished with the chance of her becoming pregnant.
We havnt ruled out a trip to a sex resort like Desire or Hedonism where she can get back on the pill far enough in advance to allow her to perform.
My wife is much more open now.
She does anal now, and likes to has her ass fingered while fucking, and enjoys having her ass eaten more than having her pussy eaten.
We purchased a cock ring that has a small dildo attached and she can imagine having her ass and pussy fucked at the same time when i use it.
We use her butt plugs regularly, they make her feel tighter and she says she likes how they feel in her ass and that they make me feel bigger.
Since she has been off the pill her intensity has shot up during sex, the other day while sucking my dick she tells me she wants me to fuck her face and finger her ass. usually the only time she tells me to do anything is when I am doing something wrong. lol.

In November the week before she stopped the pill, we had tried to have a spontaneous gang bang at a hotel which got my wife very hot. She was exchanging pictures and text messages with a guy and his friends and was going to meet them at a hotel where it would be to two guys and a girl who all knew each other and then my wife. My wife was very excited to finally get to use all her new skills she had acquired, like being able to have her ass fucked and wanting to be fucked in her pussy and ass at the same time really turned her on, she had wanted to try being double penetrated while standing up the most.

Though she still doesnt like to swallow she has learned its just as hot to let it roll out her mouth down her chin and onto her tits.

I had opted to stay at home so my wife could find her sexuality. My thought process there was that you act differently around your friends than you do your spouse. So my presence acts kind of like a hindrance when trying to find ones sexual self (especially since she never masturbates). So it was to be two well hung young guys and a girl who just wanted to watch and take pictures, though my wife fully expected to girl to do something to her at some point and was just going to let whatever happen. But from what we had heard from other swingers is that 50 to 60% of the time the other party flakes out. Sadly that night no one showed up and we had already paid for the hotel.

So instead my wife and I enjoyed the hotel room just the two of us which was still ok since she was already aroused and dressed sexy for her gang bang. I think her main motivation for wanting to essentially be gang banged by 2 guys and a girl was largely due to her stopping the pill.

We were thinking about going to Canada for a vacation this year, but now I might just see how she feels about doing a trip to a sex resort.

01-18-2010, 12:08 PM	#13 (permalink)
juanjimal Registered Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 5 Location: north texas Status: couple	Re: First Threesome, her First time with another guy So an update to our life since the threesome. Since our first threesome we haven't had another. Largely because of the difficulty in finding another guy. The first guy felt like he was just a peice of meat and i think we hurt his ego when we agreed. lol. We figured why bullshit, we dont want to be his boyfriend, we just want him for sex. He could have been flattered that he was only my wifes second guy and we picked him out of at least 50 but w/e he never responded to any of our other messages. Finding another guy for a threesome doesnt seem like it would be that difficult but it actually was quite a challenge. I had gotten a vasectomy a little under a month before our first threesome and my wife has been off the pill since December. so now the chance of us having a spontaneous threesome is extinguished with the chance of her becoming pregnant. We havnt ruled out a trip to a sex resort like Desire or Hedonism where she can get back on the pill far enough in advance to allow her to perform. My wife is much more open now. She does anal now, and likes to has her ass fingered while fucking, and enjoys having her ass eaten more than having her pussy eaten. We purchased a cock ring that has a small dildo attached and she can imagine having her ass and pussy fucked at the same time when i use it. We use her butt plugs regularly, they make her feel tighter and she says she likes how they feel in her ass and that they make me feel bigger. Since she has been off the pill her intensity has shot up during sex, the other day while sucking my dick she tells me she wants me to fuck her face and finger her ass. usually the only time she tells me to do anything is when I am doing something wrong. lol. In November the week before she stopped the pill, we had tried to have a spontaneous gang bang at a hotel which got my wife very hot. She was exchanging pictures and text messages with a guy and his friends and was going to meet them at a hotel where it would be to two guys and a girl who all knew each other and then my wife. My wife was very excited to finally get to use all her new skills she had acquired, like being able to have her ass fucked and wanting to be fucked in her pussy and ass at the same time really turned her on, she had wanted to try being double penetrated while standing up the most. Though she still doesnt like to swallow she has learned its just as hot to let it roll out her mouth down her chin and onto her tits. I had opted to stay at home so my wife could find her sexuality. My thought process there was that you act differently around your friends than you do your spouse. So my presence acts kind of like a hindrance when trying to find ones sexual self (especially since she never masturbates). So it was to be two well hung young guys and a girl who just wanted to watch and take pictures, though my wife fully expected to girl to do something to her at some point and was just going to let whatever happen. But from what we had heard from other swingers is that 50 to 60% of the time the other party flakes out. Sadly that night no one showed up and we had already paid for the hotel. So instead my wife and I enjoyed the hotel room just the two of us which was still ok since she was already aroused and dressed sexy for her gang bang. I think her main motivation for wanting to essentially be gang banged by 2 guys and a girl was largely due to her stopping the pill. We were thinking about going to Canada for a vacation this year, but now I might just see how she feels about doing a trip to a sex resort.