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Originally Posted by dumbasarock10  Yeah. What he said.  |
sorry it took so long to reply, we came to the decision after fantasizing about it. Me personally I dont have a problem with it so long as it is under control and we are honest about it and the strict rules were to be followed. My whole thing is that I love seeing my wife happy and having been with her for as long as i have i know how she can be in bed. While we may have been boring and not done much, I still would get her to a point where I could get her to fantasize.
I got us some porn to play in the back of our love making sessions (which was probably the hardest part of all this since ALOT of it turned her off, you know some of the porno guys look like douchebags or its obvious the girls are faking, or they look too hookered up with coke nails and 9 inch heels, or they do waaay too much ass to mouth to the point where they do it deliberately... damn finding a wife approved porno with MMF was quite difficult. Surprisingly enough she likes mild hentai more than live action porn, i guess it doesnt have to look real if its a cartoon.) So anyways I would find some wife tolerant porn with a few MMF scenes in it and would be doing stuff to her while having her watch it.
Other things I tried is while she was giving me a bj I would use a dildo on her and tell her to imagine us with a threesome.
Finally she agreed to get a aff account and we started looking for a guy. All the attention she got made her get more aroused which only fueled it.
it took a very long time to get her to that point because the whole thought of it is taboo. But we finally got there and are happy we did.