Its been a while since we posted so this is gonna be a little long. 2 weeks ago we were invited to a party where it appeared that there were going to be more single bi women(unicorns). Mrs fun was a little reserved.one day well maybe, then we cant because of this or that. No big problem I'm not a pusher

.Of course, me being a guy I'm thinking (omg

). So the day of Mrs. fun is ready, willing and already has decided what to wear,were going

We get a message that the party has been postponed till the next weekend because not enough people sent rsvps. so now 15 people send rsvps and we are really looking forward to going . My only reservations are its mothers day

weekend. Mrs.fun has no problem with this because she has made plans for our kids to stop by for an eve cookout the next eve. HERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGINS. We planned on meeting a couple for a drink to maybe become possible playmates they were in a hurry that day and so were we so we met halfway to the party at a convenient place, made small talk and had a drink and we went our separate ways thinking we were all compatible. Accept we couldn't invite them to the party without the owners permission.
So off we go, we get to the party and one half of the hosts shows Mrs fun to our reserved room to put our overnight bag away while i go to the kitchen to put our drinks away in the frig and make us a drink. We make small talk play a game of pool or two and mingle a little. I felt a little buzzed then it hits( BLACK OUT) very vague memories. Mrs. fun was in the hot tub with a single guy that we (both think the world of) and I can remember while she is having what I think is a good time I leaned over and kissed her and said "I love you" to her. She can remember to that point that she went to our room and crashed out thats the end of her recollection till morning..I have one memory of a girl tugging on my ponytail in a good way but thats it. we wake the next morning in our room together and I'm really not feeling good at all. Mrs fun says shes gonna shower and i go down for some coffee. we make small talk with the owners and ask if we can take a couple pics before we leave and they said sure so i snapped a couple of Mrs fun and the dance floor (no members) and off we go feeling like we're a little hung over. On the way home our talk was mainly about we cant remember a thing EITHER of us, and the drive is very long. We get home and Mrs.fun passes out in a way that off to the hospital I go. (We live close) Doctors tell us that we have rohyfnol(aka.rooffies) in our systems and i shouldn't even be able to stand as much as I had in me and want to know if they should call the police.(well NO) We have to have our son come pick us up. what a thing on mothers day. Its been a week now and we have talked alot about this. My problem is I have always tried to be the guard in this lifestyle and I somehow failed. We have been through every emotion this week accept anger at each other.
Now heres another strange thing we have spoke to no one about this. We tried to contact the owners of the group\club when we got home and we were BANNED from the group no mail no nothing. Wouldn't ya think they would have at least been concerned about our wellbeing? When i asked to take a pic or 2 wouldn't ya think they would have said no? and then to be banned by the time we got home? this has been a rough week its time to pull our heads out of the sand!