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I find the topic of polyamory very interesting, and think it's cool when people make it work for them. I think it's great that people can have that level of security and trust among each other, or with the person they are in a "primary" relationship with. I can't say that I would never be open to a poly relationship, since I do like that level of freedom; but not exactly sure it would be for me at this point. For one thing, I highly doubt my fiance would be comfortable, with me also being in love with someone else. I think I may also have some feelings of insecurity, that might surface; if the situation ever came up. I might wonder if he loved her more than me, or my fiance may wonder the same thing; if I was in love with another guy.

When I think of a polyamorous relationship, I think of people being in love with more than one person at once; and also usually think of people sharing a household- and other aspects of their lives. This may be a limited view, because I'm sure there's plenty of different ways someone could be polyamorous; but I just don't know much about the subject. I do find that level of freedom very intriguing though, and know that someone can love more than one person at once; and still truely love and care about each person.