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shy_couple · 11-15-2009, 01:08 PM

1. Dont rush things!!!!!!!!!! (rule for starting out)

2. Chemistry! (Not spoken but soooooooo important for us)

We still consider ourselves newbies and learning the ropes but when we first were looking, we contacted and had contact from people we would never play with today. Luckily the timing, situation, or gut kicked in and we didn't make any big (and only a few little) mistakes.

It is easy to find people who just want to get naked and fuck. We are looking for something more than that. We really are looking for friends with benefits. We are (as our handle suggests) quite shy and we need someone respectful and someone we feel safe with to get naked with. Also Mrs Shy is a bigger girl (size 16-18) and still insecure with her body image. At first we (she) felt we could only target larger couples or girls. Much to her surprise and my enjoyment, most of the couples we have met, we would have once considered out of our league. So waiting and being selective has paid off well for us. We have met some beautiful people in more than one sense of the word.

11-15-2009, 01:08 PM	#29 (permalink)
shy_couple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 168 Location: LA Status: Happily Married Couple	Re: What's Your Advice for Beginners? 1. Dont rush things!!!!!!!!!! (rule for starting out) 2. Chemistry! (Not spoken but soooooooo important for us) We still consider ourselves newbies and learning the ropes but when we first were looking, we contacted and had contact from people we would never play with today. Luckily the timing, situation, or gut kicked in and we didn't make any big (and only a few little) mistakes. It is easy to find people who just want to get naked and fuck. We are looking for something more than that. We really are looking for friends with benefits. We are (as our handle suggests) quite shy and we need someone respectful and someone we feel safe with to get naked with. Also Mrs Shy is a bigger girl (size 16-18) and still insecure with her body image. At first we (she) felt we could only target larger couples or girls. Much to her surprise and my enjoyment, most of the couples we have met, we would have once considered out of our league. So waiting and being selective has paid off well for us. We have met some beautiful people in more than one sense of the word.