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curiousagain · 11-07-2009, 09:04 AM

I've had sex with women younger than my oldest child and then had an issue with it. But, a female friend pointed something out to me. I spent about a year during my middle twenties dating only women in their forties and early fifties kind of experimenting and enjoying NSA sex just for the joy of it. She said she had done the same in her twenties, dating only older men for a lot of the same reasons. She asked why I wasn't comfortable being on the other side of the same situation, helping someone to experiment, enjoy, and maybe learn a little. It was a bit of BFO (blinding flash of the obvious) for me. The only worry I've had about it since is how other people might perceive it, but I tend to worry less about those things as time goes on.

Each moment occurs only once, enjoy them.

11-07-2009, 09:04 AM	#15 (permalink)
curiousagain A gentleman never tells Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 2,131 Location: Southeastern USA Status: half of a couple	Re: Forty, Fifty something women: sex with younger guy (20-something)- problem for yo I've had sex with women younger than my oldest child and then had an issue with it. But, a female friend pointed something out to me. I spent about a year during my middle twenties dating only women in their forties and early fifties kind of experimenting and enjoying NSA sex just for the joy of it. She said she had done the same in her twenties, dating only older men for a lot of the same reasons. She asked why I wasn't comfortable being on the other side of the same situation, helping someone to experiment, enjoy, and maybe learn a little. It was a bit of BFO (blinding flash of the obvious) for me. The only worry I've had about it since is how other people might perceive it, but I tend to worry less about those things as time goes on. Each moment occurs only once, enjoy them.
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