 Re: Will She Mind
Its not about quantity, its about quality. I hear that so many times it is getting old. There are so many variables in attraction and tastes that it would be impossible to count.
A guy with a good cock that knows how to use it has both quality and quantity. If a girl doesn't like big cocks then who cares huh. A guy that is insecure about his cock size will likely subconciously demostrate his insecurity. That in itself may be unattractive. On the other hand a man with a small one may try to overcome it with acting macho and coming off like a bonifide idiot with a Napoleon complex.
Personally I have a very large cock. My wife likes it but she loves cocks that are about an inch or so smaller. She refuses to swing with guys that are my length out of fear of being hurt.
Cock size in swinging can be compared to how much money a guy has when a gal is looking for a mate. She may make that her no. 1 priority and end up with a totally miserable life but a big house and beautiful luxury car, condos and diamonds. But what the hell. Its how happy you are that counts.
As far as how you use it goes heres my feelings. You may think you know how to use it but you may not. Every woman has her particular likes and dislikes. If you arent asking her what she likes you are missing the boat in a lot of cases. If you have true talent you have an instinct but many women have very very particular likes. If you don't ask her how the heck will you know?
Many men stick anything they can into a vagina quickly and rub it like they are trying to start a fire. My wife HATES that. She needs a lot of external play. Some woman are totally opposite of course. Many women will not say "hey man you aren't doing it right". They are afraid of embarassing you. Ask her with every step on your first encounter. Don't interrogate her just whisper a question or two occasionally. Thats what has worked for me anyhow. John
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