Thread: Are you Poly?
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:33 AM   #37 (permalink)
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Default Re: Are you Poly?

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Originally Posted by Mrgomer View Post
POLYAMORY
A love relationship involving more than 2 people.

I tend to disagree with this broad definition.
I "love" to some extent, every couple we've ever been with.
Even a few we haven't
I think it's more of a "marriage" type of relationship only one that involves sex.

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There is a term that used to be used that I don't see anymore in the lifestyle 'Eutopian'... it is not Poly but moves beyond the NSA verion of swinging. Eutopian is what my wife and I described ourselves as in the lifestyle as we wanted to have a certian level of mutual admiriation with others before becomining intimate with them.

I am this way to this day and always will be. It doesn't mean I wouldn't hook up on the first date, but if I hook up I have every intent in persuing that relationship beyond that one event and do so because I am 'in to' the people that i'm intimate with.

I've had maybe 2 casual fucks in my life? Just not something I'm interested in persuing at all.

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