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Originally Posted by mixtupcpl  At first we were really afraid of this term and wanted to reject it. We've now come to learn and accept that we are definitely poly. But we are poly in that we like to have an emotional attachment to people in general, and especially people we have sex with. These are very much secondary relationships though and never even come close to the level of intimacy we have with each other (which I dont think is even possible, really, as it has been built over 23 years of full time connection and shared growth) |
Mixtupcpl,
You have hit on something that I think it is important to understand about Poly relationships. They are not all the same, and there is no way that you and/or your wife can have the same relationship with others that you have with each others. Each relationship is unique in its own way and has to be embraced that way.
S