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IMO, if you really want to explore swinging, one of the best things you could do is go through this entire site, the both of you and not necessarily together. After a few months or even a year or so, you will realize the reasons couples swing, the implications and results. If you guys are completely honest you will learn more than you could imagine about each other. Even if you find this not for you, it may bring you both closer together. Just being able to talk about sex, fantasies, your wants, her wants does wonders. You will find that it spills over into other aspects of your lives. For us, it's a gift we give each other and it isn't just about what I want or what she wants.