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VegasLee · 08-26-2009, 07:16 PM

Welcome to the forums.

First off you two have to be able to talk about anything and everything with total honesty. You lied because you have jealousy issues to deal with. Many, most people can not deal with their spouse having sex with others. That is why this Lifestyle does not work for Most people in this world. As long as you have thoughts of Jealousy then you need to forget the other ideas until you know for a fact you can deal with it. That day may never come. That is "normal". YOU HAVE TO TELL THE TRUTH ALWAYS!

Once you can come back here and say you have that "Diamond" relationship then you are ready to consider this lifestyle. This lifestyle won't fix anything in a rocky relationship or even a border line one. It can and will destroy a relationship though if that relationship is already not one of the best in the world. Always best to make what you already have as perfect as possible before trying to add something that could destroy it.

Good luck to you.

08-26-2009, 07:16 PM	#2 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: She is curious, I have questions Welcome to the forums. First off you two have to be able to talk about anything and everything with total honesty. You lied because you have jealousy issues to deal with. Many, most people can not deal with their spouse having sex with others. That is why this Lifestyle does not work for Most people in this world. As long as you have thoughts of Jealousy then you need to forget the other ideas until you know for a fact you can deal with it. That day may never come. That is "normal". YOU HAVE TO TELL THE TRUTH ALWAYS! Once you can come back here and say you have that "Diamond" relationship then you are ready to consider this lifestyle. This lifestyle won't fix anything in a rocky relationship or even a border line one. It can and will destroy a relationship though if that relationship is already not one of the best in the world. Always best to make what you already have as perfect as possible before trying to add something that could destroy it. Good luck to you.
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