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Old 08-19-2009, 06:48 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: Poly vs Swinging

K McDonald, it seems to me that from what you write that you are really looking to swing, cuckold, or a hot-wife situation. The idea of your wife having sex with another man, one that is better endowed with you, is a turn-on. What about her being in love with this man though, and spending time with him outside of sex, like going on dates and movies and strolling through the park holding hands, kissing and giggling over stupid things? That is the difference between a poly relationship and swinging. Swinging is more about the sex, poly is more about an actual loving relationship that includes sex.

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