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Originally Posted by talltim123

About 4 or 5 years ago I was involved with a local polyamory support group and they scheduled a sensual massage event. It was held at a large private home of one of the members and there were 24 people in attendance and were paired off with 2 ladies and 2 men at each of the 6 tables. Many pairs were established couples but for those who did not have an opposite sex partner for that evening, they were paired off with an opposite sex person by the organizers, taking into account who they felt might be compatible.

There was incense burning, warm massage oils available, low lighting, a fire in the fireplace, and soft sensual music playing. All six tables were in view of the others in two large rooms connected by a wide open archway. Nudity was suggested but not required and one lady in her 20’s kept her bra and panties on and one lady in her 50’s at our table left her panties on. The rest were totally nude. For many including me it was their first public nude event other than for those who had been in swinging situations, etc.

Each person could tell the others at their table where they did not wish to be touched if they had personal restrictions about that. When giving a massage, one would only touch areas of another person’s body the massager felt comfortable making contact with.

The makeup of the group included those from their 20’s to their 70’s and included the merely polyamory curious to those in established poly relationships as well as swingers.

At my table we were fortunate to have a lady who was an experienced masseuse, though not licensed or certified. The other lady was rather shy and kept her panties on and she indicated she would welcome being massaged anywhere she was exposed. For her and me it was our first public nude event. I am not sure what the other single male’s nudist etc. experiences were.

Each person lay face down for 15 minutes and 15 minutes face up and received massage by 6 hands at once. Then another person would receive a 30 minute massage and in a little over 2 hours all had had a 30 minute massage by the other three persons at their table. At the table I was at, there was some brief genital massage by some participants. I did note while changing table positions, that 2 couples at an adjacent table were taking it from sensual to erotic with one of the ladies giving each of the other men a brief (a few seconds) of oral-penile “massage!” However, as we were giving our full attention to the person we were massaging it did not seem appropriate to “stare” at the other tables so I cannot say how much overt sexual activity might have occurred elsewhere.

For me it was a great introduction to being nude in front of so many others and in 2-3 minutes I felt quite comfortable with it. It was also great that such a spectrum of ages and those from poly curious to established polys and swingers could enjoy such an occasion and no one freaked out despite the range of experience levels represented. I am sure if the event was more segregated by experience those who were more lifestyle friendly would been less inhibited and more inclined to enjoy the voyeuristic opportunities available.

6 hand massages are wonderful treats and a great form of foreplay!