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Originally Posted by Alex855 
...I told her to me sex is sex, and as I long as I have her heart, and that she still wants to have sex with me (meaning I don't get replaced) that is all that matters to me. Basically the understanding is that they are human sex toys with no feelings attached to them. That is the only way that I am ok with this. I told her that what turns me on is her. Her lust, her desire to just wanting to fuck, and that when she has these desires to tell me and let me in. Not to keep anything to herself as this is a partnership, and this is "OUR" sex life.
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That's all very romantic sounding but not realistic, especially the part about "they are human sex toys with no feeling attached to them."
Your girlfriend will be fucking people, not a dildo, and emotions can and often do come into the picture. There is no way you can guarantee that emotions will not play out. Heck, her date with this guy was filled with emotion! And kissing and feeling each other up was already light play in my book.
I think you want to be a cuckold. And if you haven't discussed that, you should. I haven't read this thread so maybe someone has already brought that up. You and your girlfriend should research what being a cuckold is about, for both of you.
LM