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willyoats · 07-23-2009, 03:33 PM

This one really hit home. 11-1/2 years ago I had the absolute best sex of my life with a woman I had met a couple of days earlier at a resort in Mexico. Four days later we had a return visit and it was just as wonderful. (Wife in the meantime had a ho-hum fling with this woman's boyfriend.) I immediately told my wife how great it was. She understands that this kind of thing may happen.

When the vacation was over, we all went home and took up where we had left off. This was a peak that I shall never forget. (That woman and I are still in contact) However, sex with another swing partner, no matter how good, could NEVER be the basis for breaking up a terrific marriage, even if there is a considerable emotional component (as in my case with the other woman). It's a matter of loyalty, maturity, long term goals.

Let this great encounter be a fantasy that you cherish, and get back to your real responsibilities.

07-23-2009, 03:33 PM	#8 (permalink)
willyoats Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 437 Location: lady lake, fl	Re: Too perfect swing-partner. This one really hit home. 11-1/2 years ago I had the absolute best sex of my life with a woman I had met a couple of days earlier at a resort in Mexico. Four days later we had a return visit and it was just as wonderful. (Wife in the meantime had a ho-hum fling with this woman's boyfriend.) I immediately told my wife how great it was. She understands that this kind of thing may happen. When the vacation was over, we all went home and took up where we had left off. This was a peak that I shall never forget. (That woman and I are still in contact) However, sex with another swing partner, no matter how good, could NEVER be the basis for breaking up a terrific marriage, even if there is a considerable emotional component (as in my case with the other woman). It's a matter of loyalty, maturity, long term goals. Let this great encounter be a fantasy that you cherish, and get back to your real responsibilities.