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Originally Posted by PB&J  My automatic response to that comment was, well, good luck in the lifestyle. I have found that almost universally, lifestyle men are VERY enthusiastic practitioners of cunnilingus- either that, or they are very good at pretending to be. |
Really?? Unfortunately for MrsVan this has not been the case. I would say that more often than not they have been good, but there have been more then she cares to remember that have been just plain terrible.
Now for the OP, IF MrsVan did something with a playmate that she wouldn't do for me AND it was something I had wanted, then yea you bet there would be a very long conversation after the play date about it. Now if it was something that I didn't like then hey no big deal. Example, I am not really into the entire spanking thing, giving that is. There is just something deeply rooted inside me that I just can't bring myself to hit a woman, even if it is for sex/pleasure and she wants it. I can once in a while but it won't be hard and it just doesn't feel right to me. Now we have had playmates in the past that loved it and we have a potential play mate now that loves to do it and can't with his wife because she doesn't like it. So in that instance, when/if he where to do that for MrsVan I would not be upset.
Now I would really have a few questions for the guy that made the post. First why don't you like it?? I mean I know we all have our own preferences, but I can't even imagine not wanting to go there. For me performing oral on MrsVan or my playmate as important as actual intercourse!
Now this thread had brought back to mind another question which I am going to put in a different thread, but it came up last week while hanging around our pool with some friends...
-Van