The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety

alphaplaycpl · 07-12-2009, 05:17 PM

First of all - stop stressing about it! Every couple goes through this at some point. You are certainly not alone.

I would suggest you make sure its not something medical before you drive yourselves wacko by over-thinking the situation. If all checks out well - relax. Its probably as simple as many of the other posters have mentioned (tired, overwhelming, stage fright, etc.)

Talk about your swinging fantasies together, plan ahead, rest up, and take care of yourselves and you will be just fine.

07-12-2009, 05:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
alphaplaycpl Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 46 Location: Alpharetta, GA Status: Couple	Re: what do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety First of all - stop stressing about it! Every couple goes through this at some point. You are certainly not alone. I would suggest you make sure its not something medical before you drive yourselves wacko by over-thinking the situation. If all checks out well - relax. Its probably as simple as many of the other posters have mentioned (tired, overwhelming, stage fright, etc.) Talk about your swinging fantasies together, plan ahead, rest up, and take care of yourselves and you will be just fine.