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juanjimal · 07-11-2009, 10:14 AM

the way I introduced her to the idea was by having her use a dildo when she was giving me a bj. This helped to get her at least fantasizing about it making it less awkward when the discussion came up. It took a few months but it finally became a fantasy of hers and then we set up an account on AFF (adultfriendfinder) and I let her search through all our potential matches and then show me her selection. The whole time I was trying to make her feel in control of the situation. I already knew I was open to the idea, so I made sure once we got the ball rolling to let her decide the pace.

07-11-2009, 10:14 AM	#9 (permalink)
juanjimal Registered Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 5 Location: north texas Status: couple	Re: First Threesome, her First time with another guy the way I introduced her to the idea was by having her use a dildo when she was giving me a bj. This helped to get her at least fantasizing about it making it less awkward when the discussion came up. It took a few months but it finally became a fantasy of hers and then we set up an account on AFF (adultfriendfinder) and I let her search through all our potential matches and then show me her selection. The whole time I was trying to make her feel in control of the situation. I already knew I was open to the idea, so I made sure once we got the ball rolling to let her decide the pace.