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***JustAskJulie*** · 07-10-2009, 01:00 PM

I would definitely take a break until you have worked past this issue. Let him know that you don't feel comfortable continuing to play until you fully understand where his jealousy has come from so that you don't repeat whatever happened to produce it. Hopefully, that will get him talking.

He may not even realize where the jealousy is coming from at this point. It's odd what can leave us feeling jealous or left out at times and sometimes we just have to work past it. It may just be a feeling of seeing you get more attention than him for the first time? Have there been other times where you've been chatting with the male half of a couple you've played with and he wasn't there to be part of it?

07-10-2009, 01:00 PM	#13 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: first time mfm.. and his green monster appeared I would definitely take a break until you have worked past this issue. Let him know that you don't feel comfortable continuing to play until you fully understand where his jealousy has come from so that you don't repeat whatever happened to produce it. Hopefully, that will get him talking. He may not even realize where the jealousy is coming from at this point. It's odd what can leave us feeling jealous or left out at times and sometimes we just have to work past it. It may just be a feeling of seeing you get more attention than him for the first time? Have there been other times where you've been chatting with the male half of a couple you've played with and he wasn't there to be part of it?