[lascivo]

qreskup....thank you for responding. I will try to be brief as I too don't want to overstep and take away from juanjimal's thread.

I understand and in my research into whether we are going to pursue this lifestyle I've learned you one is not forced (and they do not have their minds forced open) to participate/become part of the lifestyle. Yet, everyone who has a story has a point of revelation, a point when the idea focused itelf, or when they opened their minds to it all. That was what I was looking for. Your story on the discussion with your wife was exactly what I was interested in. I don't want to do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing when speaking of this with Ms. Lascivo. I am taking all information in and learning what I can to make certain this is truly where I/we want to go.

We are discussing the matter at home. Communication is key, but we are taking it slowly (or in a holding pattern right now).

Again, thank you. And thank you to juanjimal and the rest of the SB community for all the help and information here.