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Originally Posted by DigginIt  If there is a small jealous streak hidden in your husband's consciousness then remember to let him know how you feel. Don't take it for granted that he knows. This will be a relationship altering step if you and your husband have any insecurities about each other.
On the flip side, it has strengthened our relationship and so far it's amazing.
Our fingers are crossed for you guys! |
I have learned to never take anything about my relationship with my husband for granted, as I made that mistake before by thinking we were on the same page, and it turned out we weren't even in the same book. So now I make sure we talk everything major out to the fullest. When talking to him about why he put the breaks on our date, it turns out that he just wasn't quite ready to take what sounded like fun in fantasy into a reality. We have been talking about it some more, and decided that if possible we want to play on webcam with another couple, to get used to the idea of having sex around other people. Then maybe try an on premise club if we can find one in our area. So we have a game plan, now we just need to put it into action. It may be awhile before we even get the chance to play again as we both work odd hours and have two little ones at home, but I will update as we make progress (or not)