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Originally Posted by asian_delight63  I listened but made no reply as our little one was sleeping in the back seat. |
As an aside...my wife and I came up with a system of codes to discuss swinging in front of our (even awake) children (who are young, but not toddlers any more...sniff!). They aren't dumb by any means, but there's no direct way they can divine what we are discussing. It works for us. For now anyways. In a couple of years, we'll have to stop talking in front of them.
As a funny example...my wife LOVES playing chess, but has a hard time telling the different between a rook and a bishop,
and I had no idea that chess clubs were so....kinky!
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Originally Posted by asian_delight63 Does it sound as though my wife wants to begin to explore Swinging again, or at least that she is not opposed to it?
I am fine with it, but don't want to open the bottle if I am just imagining things.
Any suggestions?
Thanks |
I have to agree with what someone else said above. Ask! It doesn't have to be high pressure, just ask and see if she's interested in exploring again, or if she'd like to talk about it some more, etc. If she had no interest at all, she wouldn't have brought it up.
Open the lines of communication.
My wife and I talk about anything and everything. I'd hope any marriage can do that, especially a married couple that swings.