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Old 07-06-2009, 11:51 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome?

First Off, Catt, Welcome to the Board!

We started off playing with the threesome thing (MFM) for the first few months.. and then progressed on to playing with other couples, after My Mrs Real, was more comfortable with the idea of sexual play with more than one other partner.

As far as Craigslist, I dunno.. I would worry about too many variables from the teenagers, playas, fakes, frauds, and worse.. Might be a better idea to join a simple site post a simple profile and browse some ads.. at least you know whomever you choose should have some of the mentality, to be part of a threesome.

I also understand the disappointment of your husband cancelling.. But its a good rule to follow, if someone doesnt feel comfortable.. STOP and reset.. Often these are blessings in disguise

I would suggest sitting down and talking it thru over dinner, coffee, or what have you.. at the end of the night, despite how many time you cum, you are still going home together and the fallout can be as disasterous as it can be amazing, depending on the feeling of you both.

The other thing you both need to do, is come up with some common sense rules.. things you are both comfortable with. The moment something comes up that isnt in that script, or off your gameplan.. or your husbands, stop.. doesnt matter the scene.. just stop and deal with it then.. not later..
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