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Originally Posted by C/S  First let me say that my wife is incredible in bed and that we have great sex together. I do also have to say that with her, you better be able to last because getting her to cum sometimes is a chore. She says that I am the only person that she has ever been with that makes her orgasm every time we have sex. She said it was very sparatic (sp) before we got together. I would love for her to be able to orgasm several times. She says that when I make her cum, that she orgasms so hard that it makes her head hurt and she is completely wiped out afterwards. Like I said, it is alot of work sometimes, so our sessions are not quick at all (even with ALOT of foreplay). I love watching her with other men, but would like to have her orgasm with them. We both agree that she does not want to orgasm with them, because she will be so "spent" that she will not want to have sex with me. Its funny (not really) because she reminds me of a man, after she orgasms, she lays there for a minute to catch her breath and then passes out. Are there any tricks/tips to help her become a multi?? Thanks |
Hello first off welcome to the boards..
Now then, the key to your wife, or any other woman ENJOYING the pleasure of orgasm multiple or otherwise comes from the biggest sex organ..
Her Brain
She can orgasm with you because she TRUSTS you.. But to take that up another level or two requires something else.. a total relaxation of her mind and body to allow her to "go with it".. Some women we have known dont let themselves go for fear of many things.. the worst is being judged by others.. I am not a doctor but I could play one on TV.. the headaches could be a symptom of this, as well.. Consentrating too hard on "trying" instead of just letting it cum.. so to speak
We have had a similar discussion on another thread about women ejaculating, If the women are honest about the sensations they are feeling and ALLOW themselves to flow with them it allows them to experience sex on a whole new level.
Ask any woman if during sex.. Oral intercourse or whatever, if they have ever had the sensation that they had to pee.. Some will say no.. others might admit they have.. but stopped themselves.. this is actually the start of the "squirting" process.. If they go with it.. there might be a pleasurable, albiet messy surprise.. But after the expereince Who cares about the mess, lol..
The same applies in this instance.. Have an honest conversation about trust, and letting herself go to enjoy the expereince, and things might just work in the direction you are seeking..