Re: A writer meets a swinging couple (pt 1)
Mrs. WC here Very interesting series. I've never seen Eyes Wide Shut (can't stand Tom Cruise) but it sounds to me like that movie didn't do very good things for the lifestyle. (Correct me if I'm wrong, please)
I used to think the lifestyle would never be for me (I'm still not sure) but I've prided myself on having an open mind and accepting that while what other people find pleasurable may not appeal to me, it's their life and they should do what they enjoy. But so many people get caught up in "This is wrong" that they can't just not do the thing themselves, they have to push their feelings and beliefs on other people. "Ohmigosh, you're into swinging?! That's horrible! I always thought you were so normal! Swinging is wrong, is sinful, is cheating, etc." And yet, what do you want to bet it's a case of the pot calling the kettle black? They try to shame you for enjoying yourself when they really would like to try it themselves but their so-called morality won't let them.
As I said at the beginning, this is a very interesting series of articles, well-written and informative for those of us who haven't actually "taken the plunge", so to speak. Kudos to the author and to two4you for finding & posting it.
Mrs. WC
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