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1curiouscat · 07-05-2009, 07:44 AM

Well we ended up not going through with it, as my husband texted me at work and said he had a bad feeling and just couldn't go through with it. So obviously we are not ready to take that plunge. I have to admit I am a little disappointed and kinda surprised, as Mr Cat was the one that brought me out of my sexual shell so to speak, he had always been the more adventurous of our duo, so for him to put on the brakes was kinda surprising. But as he and I discussed, we both have to be into it for it to happen, and that's not where things are right now, so its on hold.

To answer the questions, yes we chatted with our third on the phone, and we were going to meet for dinner tonight (sunday) and then bring him back to our place if we all clicked. He stated in his reply that he has been with couples before, and he seemed genuine. He was very understanding when we backed out, and told us to keep his contact info and to contact him if/when we feel ready.

So....yeah. Kind of let down, but kind of relieved as I was nervous about taking this step, but figured it was just nerves. Maybe we need to start out slower? Mr. Cat said he wanted to "take things a lot slower" but was unable to define what that means, so I guess we have some more talking to do.

07-05-2009, 07:44 AM	#5 (permalink)
1curiouscat Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 16 Location: VA Status: M.female Swing Lifestyle Name:Lookingfora3rd757	Re: Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome? Well we ended up not going through with it, as my husband texted me at work and said he had a bad feeling and just couldn't go through with it. So obviously we are not ready to take that plunge. I have to admit I am a little disappointed and kinda surprised, as Mr Cat was the one that brought me out of my sexual shell so to speak, he had always been the more adventurous of our duo, so for him to put on the brakes was kinda surprising. But as he and I discussed, we both have to be into it for it to happen, and that's not where things are right now, so its on hold. To answer the questions, yes we chatted with our third on the phone, and we were going to meet for dinner tonight (sunday) and then bring him back to our place if we all clicked. He stated in his reply that he has been with couples before, and he seemed genuine. He was very understanding when we backed out, and told us to keep his contact info and to contact him if/when we feel ready. So....yeah. Kind of let down, but kind of relieved as I was nervous about taking this step, but figured it was just nerves. Maybe we need to start out slower? Mr. Cat said he wanted to "take things a lot slower" but was unable to define what that means, so I guess we have some more talking to do.