The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety

dumbasarock10 · 07-02-2009, 01:30 PM

Just like everyone else says: Yes it's normal, and no it's not medical. Stage fright. Pure and simple. It happened on my first and second encounter swinging. It, for me, was just a situation I wasn't yet familiar or comfortable with. She can help too, giving a little attention and foreplay. On one such occasion, I was armed and ready. But as soon as I was ready to deploy my soldier into the bush, all motivation was lost. She just played with me, all of me. And once again, the Trooper was at attention and ready to engage. Drinking had little or no effect on it one way or the other. Here's to more successful engagements.

07-02-2009, 01:30 PM	#10 (permalink)
dumbasarock10 Here to Stay Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 62 Location: Atlanta Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dumbasarock10	Re: what do we do to fix this? Just like everyone else says: Yes it's normal, and no it's not medical. Stage fright. Pure and simple. It happened on my first and second encounter swinging. It, for me, was just a situation I wasn't yet familiar or comfortable with. She can help too, giving a little attention and foreplay. On one such occasion, I was armed and ready. But as soon as I was ready to deploy my soldier into the bush, all motivation was lost. She just played with me, all of me. And once again, the Trooper was at attention and ready to engage. Drinking had little or no effect on it one way or the other. Here's to more successful engagements.