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Sir Dude · 07-02-2009, 11:52 AM

It worked out well for us. Your situation sounds almost exactly the same. However, my wife had a little freak out at first when I told her that I asked him. I think I may have rushed into it before she was ready. Poor communication.

We are still friends with the other guy but we don't see him often anymore. He met someone and she moved in with him a couple of months ago so all the MFM action stopped. However, our relationship became closer before he met his new girlfriend. In fact on two occasions him and my wife had sex while I was at work and in one case, out of town. I did demand pics since I wasn't there. hehe

I stopped by his place for a beer last night but they were gone golfing. The threesome did not define our friendship but it did change it. Now that the MFM thing isn't happening it is as if the relationship moved back to where it once was. However, we'll always have the memories and you never know, maybe once again some day.

I wouldn't complain if he wanted a foursome with us and his new girl friend. Hehe, but I don't think that'll happen any time soon,most likely never.

07-02-2009, 11:52 AM	#19 (permalink)
Sir Dude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 104 Location: Canada Status: Couple	Re: First time, considering a close friend It worked out well for us. Your situation sounds almost exactly the same. However, my wife had a little freak out at first when I told her that I asked him. I think I may have rushed into it before she was ready. Poor communication. We are still friends with the other guy but we don't see him often anymore. He met someone and she moved in with him a couple of months ago so all the MFM action stopped. However, our relationship became closer before he met his new girlfriend. In fact on two occasions him and my wife had sex while I was at work and in one case, out of town. I did demand pics since I wasn't there. hehe I stopped by his place for a beer last night but they were gone golfing. The threesome did not define our friendship but it did change it. Now that the MFM thing isn't happening it is as if the relationship moved back to where it once was. However, we'll always have the memories and you never know, maybe once again some day. I wouldn't complain if he wanted a foursome with us and his new girl friend. Hehe, but I don't think that'll happen any time soon,most likely never.