The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety

sexylady1970 · 07-02-2009, 10:44 AM

Yep, its a mental thing, I have to agree with that. The medications sometimes are more of a placebo effect than anything. Drinking and swinging are like drinking and driving...sooner or later disaster will happen. Will perfomance issues are the least of yor worries, it does happen.

I have found one little trick that seems to help more than anything. When going on a potential play date, I do what the mrs does. Go commando with loose fitting pants, For whatever reason it allows the blood to circulate more and there is less of a problem. I have nearly alway equated a performance problem to either too much alcohol or wearing something a bit too snug. Just in case I also will pop a little helper discreetly so I have all bases covered.

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sexylady1970 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 79 Location: Las Vegas Status: Couple	Re: what do we do to fix this? Yep, its a mental thing, I have to agree with that. The medications sometimes are more of a placebo effect than anything. Drinking and swinging are like drinking and driving...sooner or later disaster will happen. Will perfomance issues are the least of yor worries, it does happen. I have found one little trick that seems to help more than anything. When going on a potential play date, I do what the mrs does. Go commando with loose fitting pants, For whatever reason it allows the blood to circulate more and there is less of a problem. I have nearly alway equated a performance problem to either too much alcohol or wearing something a bit too snug. Just in case I also will pop a little helper discreetly so I have all bases covered.