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Originally Posted by Adadls  Well, as I have said before, she's always been a tad conservative in the bed. Also she feels the need to perform at her best. I mean even considering this, she has ramped up her exercise routine about double what it was saying that she is determined to look her sexiest. I guess him not having any past sexual experiences makes it less stressful for her. She will not be ashamed if she didn't perform well. |
Ok, something strikes me funny here. First off you have to do what is comfortable for all invloved, but to me it sounds like your wife has some issues regarding performance and maybe self esteem....? There is nothing wrong with exercising and wanting to look your best and such, but the wanting a virgin so she wont be ashamed if she doesnt perform well....that just sends a flag up IMO. I think she has some self image issues that should be addressed first...
I also agree with the other posters about the not so good things that could happen when you involve a virgin..
just my .02 Good luck.