 Re: what do we do to fix this?
This sounds like a classic case of him putting too much pressure on himself. I've been there and done that on a couple of occasions and it took some clear thinking to understand that my partner or partners were there for fun too and the pressure being applied was of my own doing.
Tell him to remember that this is fun...performance is not the point...fun is the point and that he should do what's fun...his partner or partners will appreciate it as much or more than he will.
If he'll take the time to search this board he'll find that women love small and large penises, guys that can hammer away for hours and guys who use lots of foreplay and finish with a short, but effective, screw and all things in between. In short, there's something for everybody.
Once I got through my worries I found a couple of things. 1. Foreplay is King (this is especially nice for a me as I'm a quick cummer who only gets one). 2. Foreplay can be very effective when spread over the whole experience...not just the beginning as the word foreplay suggests. I have not found one woman who would suggest otherwise.
Once he's come to this realization he'll be so busy licking, fingering, rubbing, getting her in a position so SHE can watch, sucking, fingering, licking and playing with titties that he'll be a freak, standing at attention ready to go to battle.
And this is what Mrs. Ekies and I call fun.
Trace
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