The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety

slevin · 07-01-2009, 11:39 PM

A few things that have helped me:

- Don't have sex or masturbate for a few days before your swinging encounter...no matter how horny or excited you both might be.
- Get him some Viagra or Cialis etc.
- Drink lots of water over those few days, eat lots of protein, get lots of sleep

I'm a youngish guy too, but after a swinging encounter where I had a bit of trouble getting hard I went to see my doctor and just told her that I was having some issues at home and after some medical questions and checks to make sure I wasn't having any heart problems I walked away with a Cialis prescription. I don't generally use it, but it's there if I need it which is really all I wanted it for. So he shouldn't feel uncomfortable about bringing it up. Hell, on some weekends when we're both home with no obligations I've popped one anyway just for fun lol.

07-01-2009, 11:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: what do we do to fix this? A few things that have helped me: - Don't have sex or masturbate for a few days before your swinging encounter...no matter how horny or excited you both might be. - Get him some Viagra or Cialis etc. - Drink lots of water over those few days, eat lots of protein, get lots of sleep I'm a youngish guy too, but after a swinging encounter where I had a bit of trouble getting hard I went to see my doctor and just told her that I was having some issues at home and after some medical questions and checks to make sure I wasn't having any heart problems I walked away with a Cialis prescription. I don't generally use it, but it's there if I need it which is really all I wanted it for. So he shouldn't feel uncomfortable about bringing it up. Hell, on some weekends when we're both home with no obligations I've popped one anyway just for fun lol.