The Swingers Board - View Single Post - What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety

exploringRM · 07-01-2009, 10:52 PM

I'm a bit older (almost 50) and I've had issues at times getting it up maybe 3 times out of 20 so far. Sometimes it due to being too tired...as in doing too much around saturday afternoon (yard work, cycling, etc) and then trying to play at 1AM..just tuff. Too much to drink, though I stop at about two drinks now. Distracted as in people watching, or too much going on around us (as in a previous poster suggesting separate rooms)...or just plain nervous.

07-01-2009, 10:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Re: what do we do to fix this? I'm a bit older (almost 50) and I've had issues at times getting it up maybe 3 times out of 20 so far. Sometimes it due to being too tired...as in doing too much around saturday afternoon (yard work, cycling, etc) and then trying to play at 1AM..just tuff. Too much to drink, though I stop at about two drinks now. Distracted as in people watching, or too much going on around us (as in a previous poster suggesting separate rooms)...or just plain nervous.