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DE_BBC · 07-01-2009, 10:06 PM

are you talking about a same room type situation?
It could be just as you said..."stage fright".
A lot of guys experience this when having sex in front of others for the first time....hell, a lot of guys can't perform in front of others, this is why you see the same guys over and over in porn films. I had a similar issue the first time I was with a woman in front of her husband...it didn't help that it was being recorded for her web-site...but I got over it, and now I can perform in front of anyone..anytime.

I would suggest trying to help him get it up without pharmacutical help first.

07-01-2009, 10:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
DE_BBC Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 86 Location: Delaware Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:delbbc	Re: what do we do to fix this? are you talking about a same room type situation? It could be just as you said..."stage fright". A lot of guys experience this when having sex in front of others for the first time....hell, a lot of guys can't perform in front of others, this is why you see the same guys over and over in porn films. I had a similar issue the first time I was with a woman in front of her husband...it didn't help that it was being recorded for her web-site...but I got over it, and now I can perform in front of anyone..anytime. I would suggest trying to help him get it up without pharmacutical help first.