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livinitup77 · 07-01-2009, 09:47 PM

We are new to this. have had an awesome time flirting laughing foreplay but when it comes to the main event dh can't get it up. is this normal. I've asked if he's really ok with the whole swinging thing and he's really loving it. loves watching me. first time we thought it was because he drank to much so the next time he didn't drink. Yes we are still newbs. really want to both screw but jeez this is making it hard. any tips? he was very attracted to both women. and remembering this happend to us the first time we ever tried to hook up. what do we call it? stage fright? we thought of getting viagra before we go out but then if we don't play he migbht be in pain or hard as a rock for me all night. were a young couple and he never has this issue at home. he chases me around with a hard cock constantly. HELP!!

07-01-2009, 09:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
livinitup77 Active Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12 Location: wichita Status: couple	What do we do to fix this? Performance Anxiety We are new to this. have had an awesome time flirting laughing foreplay but when it comes to the main event dh can't get it up. is this normal. I've asked if he's really ok with the whole swinging thing and he's really loving it. loves watching me. first time we thought it was because he drank to much so the next time he didn't drink. Yes we are still newbs. really want to both screw but jeez this is making it hard. any tips? he was very attracted to both women. and remembering this happend to us the first time we ever tried to hook up. what do we call it? stage fright? we thought of getting viagra before we go out but then if we don't play he migbht be in pain or hard as a rock for me all night. were a young couple and he never has this issue at home. he chases me around with a hard cock constantly. HELP!!