Thank you The Fuse. What we did was to set down and totally discuss this, lay some hard rules out, NO money moves between us., C and I pay for ours, P pays for his.. We don't "live" together full timebut we do communicate and see each other alot during the week. And the love is between C and I. P has feelings but as he told C and I he's NOT in love with me. He's knows the difference. P enjoys the closeness of the friendship we 3 have and as we all say over and over, "we are not getting any younger" so might as well live a little. It's just a really close friendship of sorts with those exiting benefits of sex and doing things together. None of us want anybody else to play/swing with.. We pretty much have enough right here.
Sexually it's a blast for me, because P is very large and thick long lasting where C is average but C has other excellent talents
that P doesn't. So we complement each other in and out of the bedroom.. The dangers we see down the road are age and those limitations..The realtionship is interesting, kinda poly I guess but kinda closed swinging to.
PS that you for the welcome to the forum .... D