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slevin · 07-01-2009, 04:58 PM

I don't know about you guys, but my actual sex drive doesn't change based on how frequent or adventurous my sex life is at home. I'm horny the same amount, it's more about whether I feel motivated to want to actually have sex with her or not. Now, I don't mean that to be current, but I think everyone has gone through those periods in a long relationship where you get too busy and things just seem to slow down. I've always been just as horny during those periods as at times when things are going well. The difference is time or motivation.

If my actual sex drive was slowing down....I'd be going to the doctor to find out what is up.

07-01-2009, 04:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Men and lost sex drives.... I don't know about you guys, but my actual sex drive doesn't change based on how frequent or adventurous my sex life is at home. I'm horny the same amount, it's more about whether I feel motivated to want to actually have sex with her or not. Now, I don't mean that to be current, but I think everyone has gone through those periods in a long relationship where you get too busy and things just seem to slow down. I've always been just as horny during those periods as at times when things are going well. The difference is time or motivation. If my actual sex drive was slowing down....I'd be going to the doctor to find out what is up.