Re: First time, considering a close friend
Well, as I have said before, she's always been a tad conservative in the bed. Also she feels the need to perform at her best. I mean even considering this, she has ramped up her exercise routine about double what it was saying that she is determined to look her sexiest. I guess him not having any past sexual experiences makes it less stressful for her. She will not be ashamed if she didn't perform well. And as to her feeling bad, they have talked about it alot among themselves, and he and I have talked about it. Basically it comes down to as long as he is cool with it, for reasons that he has determined that makes it fine, we are cool with it. I understand having someone with more sexual experience will make it less anxious and nervous, but for this situation, it seems to suit her well. We have taken the advice and browsed the boards extensively the past few days, and it has given us a lot to consider. I will post back periodically with updates and such, and if we hit another sticky situation we know where to turn first definitely!
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