Re: first time mfm.. and his green monster appeared "The text message from Mr. X, was it the first communication from him since the MFM? If so, did he address both of you in his message and thank you both for the wonderful time? Did Mr. X show his appreciation to your husband for sharing you with him? If not, this could be part of why your husband is unhappy right now."
It was the second communication the first being to both of us. Mr. X did express gratitude and was very polite and respectful to us both.
As a add on question........Where do i begin to go forward? He is wanting to still play with others but in my mind and experience of other couples who have issues, to put this aside and continue on is only going to lead to a bigger disaster later on and it might be one we cant come back from.
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