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NCfuncouple98 · 06-30-2009, 07:11 PM

It could be that the boundary of non-play contact was never really discussed, and he feels a 15 minute conversation is too close or too intimate for his comfort level.

Mr. NC and I have had to have that conversation - are we both comfortable with text or IM outside of the bedroom, or do we want to leave it in the bedroom only and no single contacts?

Did you discuss this possibility before? If not, you need to now. Find out why this bothered him. Then set the boundaries that you both are comfortable with and will agree to.

Mrs. NC

06-30-2009, 07:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
NCfuncouple98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 723 Location: North Caroliina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncfuncouple98	Re: first time mfm.. and his green monster appeared It could be that the boundary of non-play contact was never really discussed, and he feels a 15 minute conversation is too close or too intimate for his comfort level. Mr. NC and I have had to have that conversation - are we both comfortable with text or IM outside of the bedroom, or do we want to leave it in the bedroom only and no single contacts? Did you discuss this possibility before? If not, you need to now. Find out why this bothered him. Then set the boundaries that you both are comfortable with and will agree to. Mrs. NC
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