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NCfuncouple98 · 06-30-2009, 06:59 PM

Teresa gave some great advice, and I hope you really do read it more than once and take it to heart.

You'll find some have had good experiences with friends, some were not so good.

Our first experience was MFM with my husband's best friend of 20 years - he and his wife have been swingers for a few years, he was visiting from out of state. It was absolutely amazing, and no one had any regrets. (His wife was also fully aware).

So for our second experience we chose another friend, that we were good friends with, though my friendship with him was always closer than he and my husband's. It was an absolute disaster, and the friendship definitely changed. We are still friends now, but it took 6 months. And it will never be the same.

So if you do choose to go ahead with this, understand that it could go either way.

06-30-2009, 06:59 PM	#10 (permalink)
NCfuncouple98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 723 Location: North Caroliina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncfuncouple98	Re: First time, considering a close friend Teresa gave some great advice, and I hope you really do read it more than once and take it to heart. You'll find some have had good experiences with friends, some were not so good. Our first experience was MFM with my husband's best friend of 20 years - he and his wife have been swingers for a few years, he was visiting from out of state. It was absolutely amazing, and no one had any regrets. (His wife was also fully aware). So for our second experience we chose another friend, that we were good friends with, though my friendship with him was always closer than he and my husband's. It was an absolute disaster, and the friendship definitely changed. We are still friends now, but it took 6 months. And it will never be the same. So if you do choose to go ahead with this, understand that it could go either way.
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