The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Moving at the speed of molasses

LikeMinds321 · 06-30-2009, 04:27 PM

We don't do IM chatting. I don't connect well with others when shooting short sentences back and forth. I'd much prefer to send one or two meaty e-mails to people and get a couple in return. If done correctly, a couple e-mail exchanges are all that is necessary to decide if you want to meet. Couples who are serious about meeting will then be ready to schedule a date. At least that's what we've learned.

This couple may not know how to interpret the IM's you've sent, or, this couple may not be in agreement on meeting you (e.g., he wants to, she doesn't).

If you've found a pattern in the lack of people wanting to meet you, maybe changing your approach would help. My suggestion would be to eliminate IM Chat.

Best of luck!

LM

06-30-2009, 04:27 PM	#10 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Moving at the light speed of molasses... We don't do IM chatting. I don't connect well with others when shooting short sentences back and forth. I'd much prefer to send one or two meaty e-mails to people and get a couple in return. If done correctly, a couple e-mail exchanges are all that is necessary to decide if you want to meet. Couples who are serious about meeting will then be ready to schedule a date. At least that's what we've learned. This couple may not know how to interpret the IM's you've sent, or, this couple may not be in agreement on meeting you (e.g., he wants to, she doesn't). If you've found a pattern in the lack of people wanting to meet you, maybe changing your approach would help. My suggestion would be to eliminate IM Chat. Best of luck! LM