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sweet_tna · 06-30-2009, 04:14 PM

Since you asked, here are my $0.02. I think your biggest issue isn't the FB stuff in and of itself. I think ya'll were starting to really like this couple, and for whatever reason, they decided they weren't going to play with ya'll any more. Now whether or not they were really taking a break or not is irrelevant. It sounds like they were trying to be nice to ya'll, but that doesn't ease the sting. No one likes to be rejected, and the more you like someone, the more it's gonna' hurt.

Yes, the facebook stuff probably aggravated an already frustrating situation, but ya' gotta' just shrug it off and move on. If moving on means keeping Swing Lifestyle friends separate from FB, then so be it.

In our case, we reserve FB for folks we know well enough to spend vanilla/family time with. And by the by, if I happen to see some flirting going back and forth with our friends and other Swing Lifestyle friends of theirs . . . so what? I fully expect they'll have lives apart from us, just as we do from them.

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06-30-2009, 04:14 PM	#12 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Why Facebook Is a Bad Place for Swingers Since you asked, here are my $0.02. I think your biggest issue isn't the FB stuff in and of itself. I think ya'll were starting to really like this couple, and for whatever reason, they decided they weren't going to play with ya'll any more. Now whether or not they were really taking a break or not is irrelevant. It sounds like they were trying to be nice to ya'll, but that doesn't ease the sting. No one likes to be rejected, and the more you like someone, the more it's gonna' hurt. Yes, the facebook stuff probably aggravated an already frustrating situation, but ya' gotta' just shrug it off and move on. If moving on means keeping Swing Lifestyle friends separate from FB, then so be it. In our case, we reserve FB for folks we know well enough to spend vanilla/family time with. And by the by, if I happen to see some flirting going back and forth with our friends and other Swing Lifestyle friends of theirs . . . so what? I fully expect they'll have lives apart from us, just as we do from them. =)
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