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***JustAskJulie*** · 06-30-2009, 02:54 PM

I have a handful of swingers on my FB page, none local - not that I wouldn't have local swinger friends on my fb page, I just don't have any local ones that I am that comfortable with that are on FB.

My thought when I read this is that I think you might be reading too much into someone else's posts on someone else's FB. You admittedly don't know the level of their relationship and while you THOUGHT that you guys had gotten to be REAL friends with this couple, it's possible that you hadn't, but that they had gotten to be real friends with this other couple. To the point that they feel comfortable being flirty and batting comments around on their FB without a second thought of what others might think.

I have friends on FB that I do flirt with, they aren't swingers (to my knowledge) we are just having fun. I wouldn't be as likely to be flirty with my FB friends who are swingers because I'm more concerned with not wanting to give any appearance or make their friends think there is anything going on that shouldn't be, if that makes sense.

06-30-2009, 02:54 PM	#11 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Why Facebook Is a Bad Place for Swingers I have a handful of swingers on my FB page, none local - not that I wouldn't have local swinger friends on my fb page, I just don't have any local ones that I am that comfortable with that are on FB. My thought when I read this is that I think you might be reading too much into someone else's posts on someone else's FB. You admittedly don't know the level of their relationship and while you THOUGHT that you guys had gotten to be REAL friends with this couple, it's possible that you hadn't, but that they had gotten to be real friends with this other couple. To the point that they feel comfortable being flirty and batting comments around on their FB without a second thought of what others might think. I have friends on FB that I do flirt with, they aren't swingers (to my knowledge) we are just having fun. I wouldn't be as likely to be flirty with my FB friends who are swingers because I'm more concerned with not wanting to give any appearance or make their friends think there is anything going on that shouldn't be, if that makes sense.