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We are all very new to this.

The three of us are all in our early 50's.
D is a 50 female, very sexual, high sex drive, multi orgasmic
C is a 56 year old male and D and C have been married for 7 years and have a great and loving marriage Neither is jealous.
P is a 54 year old male and has been married to another for 30 + years.

History: at one time in the mid 1990's D and P met each other and had a 5 year relationship (sexual) while married to other people. Their marriages at the time was unfilled, abusive and restricted. They both called off the relationship and P and his wife moved to another state due to work. D divorced the other man. This year P moved back to his home town.

In 2002 C and D had a dating relationship and then married...A fun marriage and we are the best of friends and communicate about everything. C and D both had talked about swinging since both loved sex but D would only do it with someone she trusted. D had heard that P was back in town and spoke to C about contacting P. That contact was made we all met and C could see there was history and wanted to see if this relationship would work. We talked it over with P and he agreed. P is still in a unfilled relationship with his wife, there is no sex in this marriage. She has her life and P has his. The share a large 20 acre farm and P noted " it's cheaper to keep her", and his wife has mentioned to others , if they divorce her money train will be gone and the farm would be split. So they stay together and do their own thing.

Where we are today: C now has a medical condition caused by low testosterone and is being treated. C's mind is all out for intercourse, but his body doesn't last. So C has ok' d D and P to enjoy each other sexually. C has noted an excitement in D since she is now being pleased and involved with two men and C has commented that there us a spring in D's step. P has mentioned that he see's and acknowledges that C and D are in love and he does not want to mess anything up between C and D, he's is not a treat would back away if C and D wanted.

We all now see each other about twice a week, go to car shows, go out to eat together, take trips together and even to the beach for long weekends. Sometimes sex is not even in the picture since we all feel is not all about the sex but the long lasting companionship. And we all feel, we are not getting any younger so might as well enjoy each other with no limits. C and P hunt and fish together and work on old muscle cars as a hobby. C and P have so much in common its at times scary. C medications have helped him recover somewhat and C is able to enjoy time with both D and P sexually which is pleasurable for us all.

So is this MFM relationship swinging or a Poly and is there any dangers involved ?

Thanks D