MrsVan

I guess I look at this differently. In order for my LS friends to be on my facebook or MySpace, they have to be people I trust to not make it known on either of those areas that we are in the LS. I do have some LS friends who are my friends on facebook and MySpace. These are people whom we became good friends with but we do not play with anymore. For the most part some of them do not live near us and well things have changed for some of them and therefore we are just friends only. We do have friends who are on our facebook from the LS that we may have had play sessions with but since our play sessions have just became good friends and we just do not play and that is okay with us.

I am sure they may have pictures of their other friends and of other times out with friends and well, I just look at it as friends and not LS friends. What they all chose to do on their own time is their business and I am not going to get upset with any of them.

It seems to me that you may have gotten too attached to this couple and in the process felt hurt when they said they were taking a break. Maybe it is possible that both parties took a break at the same time but even if they chose to be exclusive with each other does not make it sound like they did not like you back. I think your initial reaction to deleting them from friends on facebook was a "knee jerk" reaction cause you felt hurt or disappointed. Maybe you should have contemplated that for a few days before you deleted them because now the situation you run into is that what if they still wanted to remain friends and try to contact you on facebook but can't? How would you explain that?

We had a couple who we were friends with and they were on my MySpace as friends. However, the divorced and I was more in contact with the wife than the husband and noticed he deleted me as a friend. I didn't get upset cause I figured that was a decision he made and he wants to keep things away from the ex-wife and possibly have some privacy as he goes through the divorce.

We all react in different ways and the way you reacted may have been the best for you so that you did not continue to feel hurt about the situation.

I wish you the best! And hope you can find some way to work around this situation.

MrsVan