 Re: Too many rules?
We're in agreement also. When we were first talking about joining the lifestyle, we began to make a list of our own rules. As we talked more and more, the list became smaller and smaller. Part of this was because we talked a LONG time before we jumped in, playing through each possible scenario that we could come up with. As we were truly ready to join in, we found that we really only had one or two steadfast rules. Everything else revolves around our own communication.
I got long-winded and off on a tangent (sorry!), but basically I'm in agreement with others -- long lists scare us away from potential playmates. We don't want to walk on eggshells, and we want to be sure (if they are new) that they are truly ready for the adventure.
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