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Originally Posted by slevin  That's what I thought. And what if she made it clear she had entertained the idea, had weighed the options and she has decided that it isn't for her? She has no interest in ever doing it. |
It's interesting that you should ask that question because both my wife and I take pride in using logic and reason to make decisions. So if we reach that point where I believe that she has done as you say, i.e. weighed her options and made a rational decision, not from the gut, then I would drop it. Now, the corollary to that is, if not swinging, then what? We have both concluded that our sex life is in a rut, and I have brought swinging to the table as an option. If it is off the table, then what? That's probably a question for a marriage counselor and not a swingers forum, but it is a legitimate question.