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Originally Posted by isikar  My wife and I have been married 11 years and have had good sex life, but we have both acknowledged in recent months that our sex life is stale. I ran across an article about swinging and started checking it out and I like what I found. I though about it long and hard before I decided to bring it up with my wife. |
Hey and welcome to the board
I am glad to hear that you and your wife are talking more openly and are both invested in improving your relationship and your sex life. That is a great thing and even if you never swing you have set yourselves on a great path to maintaining a strong relationship and keeping it exciting.
All of that said, I think you mis-stepped with your approach to this in a few areas. Some of the way you put things here make me wonder: how would you feel if your wife told you tomorrow that she loves the fantasy, but never wants to even entertain the idea of making it a reality? How would you handle that?
I have more to say, but I don't want that question to get lost in with everything else