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1curiouscat · 06-29-2009, 03:03 AM

So I have been reading more and more on the forum and in different blogs about swinging experiences, and one thing I have noticed is just about every play situation involves doing oral. I can't do oral for a long time or go very deep (especially if the guy is thick) because I have bad TMJ (Tempo-mandibular joint disorder) This condition causes my jaw to pop and crack and have painful spasms if I have to open my mouth wider then I would for eating. My dentist has tried a night guard to treat me, but I don't grind my teeth so its not helping. He said I will just have to deal with it.

My question is two fold: Will we have a hard time finding playmates since I can't really give head? And if any of you ladies suffer from it too, how do you deal with it, and is there anything I can try to make it not so painful?

06-29-2009, 03:03 AM	#1 (permalink)
1curiouscat Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 16 Location: VA Status: M.female Swing Lifestyle Name:Lookingfora3rd757	TMJ...Will I have a hard time finding playmates? So I have been reading more and more on the forum and in different blogs about swinging experiences, and one thing I have noticed is just about every play situation involves doing oral. I can't do oral for a long time or go very deep (especially if the guy is thick) because I have bad TMJ (Tempo-mandibular joint disorder) This condition causes my jaw to pop and crack and have painful spasms if I have to open my mouth wider then I would for eating. My dentist has tried a night guard to treat me, but I don't grind my teeth so its not helping. He said I will just have to deal with it. My question is two fold: Will we have a hard time finding playmates since I can't really give head? And if any of you ladies suffer from it too, how do you deal with it, and is there anything I can try to make it not so painful?